First, realize men and women communicate in different ways. If you start losing your husband at "Worked sucked today...yadayadayada", hold it! You're about to lose your guy with your complaining and whining. Why not let him into the conversation by asking the right questions. For example "How was your day? Mine really sucked." Not only will he answer you, but he will take interest in asking you "WHY?"
If you frequently get into arguments about how he didn't listen to you when you asked him to do a certain chore, separate yourself and cool down. In order to become a good wife, you will have to master this tip! Instead of going into a whirlwind of fury, tell him what he did wrong calmly in a nice matter. We are all human, we all get busy with our work schedules, we all slip-up; be a good wife and give him a break. He might learn a thing or two from you !
Every couple of weeks, let him have a day off in exchange for help with a chore. For example, ask him if he can pickup the kids from school this week or help you clean the living room in exchange for having a day with his buddies at the golf course. Perhaps he can invite his buddies over, watch a sports game, or shoot some pool. Point is, let him have a break. Absence will make the heart fonder. A good wife will leverage this and set up a system where he lets her have her own personal time too
Enjoy time together. Set up a date night. That's right, you and the hubby alone, no kids, silence! Change it week to week; go to a movie and a dinner or watch one at home with a romantic dinner. Perhaps go bowling together; point is to take a time out for both of you to keep your relationship young and healthy. If you want to become a good wife, you must remind your husband why he married you. Dress up, make the effort and more importantly, make HIM make the effort for YOU
Incorporate these tips into your relationship and you'll be on your way to become a good wife Make sure you follow as best as you can; remember, start slow and keep up
Keep nagging to a minimum. This rarely works and doesn't help the relationship. If you need him to do something, ask nicely and with respect
Welcome him home with a smile and a hug instead of a sour face. Listen to him talk about his day, especially if it was a difficult one
Plan little surprises for him. They do not have to be elaborate and can be as simple as getting him his favorite snack to let him know you are thinking of him. Or, plan a surprise date night with him
Give him his space. Encourage him to go out and hang out with his friends for a break or engage in a hobby or sport that he likes
Cook him his favorite dishes once in a while even if you would rather eat something else
Express your love and appreciation often. Find time to be intimate even though you may be tired; it's an expression of your love for him
Join him in activities that he's interested in. Watching Sunday football may not be something you would choose to do, but it's doesn't hurt to show an interest from time to time
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